the sweet lover

(forwarded stuff)

Why do we love ba? So we can have somebody to talk to? Someone who can be there pag gusto natin gumala? A person na puwedeng manlibre sa atin? Taong magbibitbit ng gamit mo? Alalay for short!

Eh pano kung di ka nya mahal? Would you still love him/her? Would you still continue to care for that person?

Bakit naman? You didn’t love that person para magkaroon ka ng alalay, magkaroon ka ng instant meal dahil libre, taong gagawa ng assignments mo or projects, or taong mahihila mo if you want to go out? If that’s what you think about love, well, sorry… ang babaw mo!

Loving a person doesn’t need to have a criteria na dapat maganda o guwapo, dapat loving a person doesn’t need to have a criteria na dapat maganda o guwapo, dapat mabait or understanding, kasi once you fall inlove you take the risk of accepting dat person kahit maingay sya matulog, yung hilik ng hilik, kahit matakaw sya o sobrang fat na hindi na hindi kayo kasya pag puno na ang jeep! Kahit sobrang moody sya na kulang na lang ay sapakin mo siya sa inis! Yung sobrang selosa na pati barkada pinagseselosan…Bad trip di ba? And yung napaka arte… OA kung baga! O kahit ano pang things that would turn you off.

Hirap talaga magmahal trying to be PERFECT kase gusto mong magtagal pero hindi iyon ang sagot sa lahat. ACCEPTING the real person fully kase if you said na mahal mo siya, you don’t need to find answers kung bakit mo siya mahal… kase lahat ng tao nagbabago but if you accept that person magbago man siya in the middle of your relationship, hindi ka masasaktan kase you know that darating din yun… tsaka tanggap mo siya ng buo… mahirap gawin pero masarap subukan, dahil wala ng sasaya pa if you let one person feel na MAHAL NA MAHAL mo siya, without asking for anything in return… then you can say… wow yun pala ang LOVE!

Being happy doesn’t mean everything’s perfect. It means you’ve decided to see beyond the imperfections.